It’s been some time since your divorce was final.  Time to start getting past the hurt and pain.  Stop holding onto the regrets of yesterday.  There’s no need to dwell on what could have or should have been.  It’s over.  Start focusing on the future.  You could get whiplash looking back over your shoulder.  Turn the corner.  Tomorrow will be brighter.  Don’t let resentment get the best of you.  Divorce happens for a reason.  Being bitter only causes you undue stress and headache.  Take a deep breath and move forward.  Put one foot in front of the other and begin to enjoy your new life.  This is a whole new beginning for you.  So, enjoy it!  The sky is the limit.  You can still have your happily ever after.  It’s never too late to find your ideal mate.  Don’t let bitterness keep you from living your best life.  You only have one life, so make the best of it.  Don’t be afraid to get counseling if you are having difficulty getting past the grief and bitterness.  The most important thing is to take care of yourself both mentally and physically. This too shall pass.  Spend time with friends and family.  Laughter is the best medicine.  Watch a comedy movie or television show and laugh.  Volunteer to help the needy.  This will help to take your mind off your worries and pain.  You will find happiness again.  It will probably happen when you least expect it.  So, hold your head high and remember you are the prize!

Emmerstine Mackie

Divorce Coach for the “Seasoned Woman”

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